Waiting....
For the other shoe to drop. He's being quiet, and I know it means that he's probably hiring high dollar lawyers and transferring this and that to here and there. He'll destroy me, he's just too smart to do it in broad daylight. With his bare hands.
I feel like I have the truth on my side, though. It's like the one thing I feel I have.
But I figure it's not enough. Having some low moments, I guess.
I can't say anything because he is probably checking in here. :(
I feel like I have the truth on my side, though. It's like the one thing I feel I have.
But I figure it's not enough. Having some low moments, I guess.
I can't say anything because he is probably checking in here. :(
posted by Nabonidus at 8:52 AM
19 Comments:
I hope things are OK. Chin up,and never go down without a fight.Danny
keep that lovely head held high, your dignity in tact and your courage in your heart. Just don't respond to any taunts or provocation, however unjust or provocative it is. We're holding your hand spiritually xxx
hang on dove. I'm sorry I've missed so much! The Whune idea is so dang neat and I mean it. Great way to keep you playing and to keep your spirit level and pizza was a great idea to boot.
You have good people in here, me included. really keeping you in mind here. Hang on, hang tough, know who you are. all will be well.
-ginab
We are just north of you...feel the vibes?
--Dan l.
Hi Lisa-
So sorry to hear that things are rough for you now.
Be strong - the Truth always wins in the end.
I believe that.
Thanks for visiting my blog! That's funny about the Alanis video. I am outta the loop I guess.
Sad that Pete yanked his previous chapters - I wish I had saved them.
Bummer.
Why don't you take a long watch on the beach to relax today?
I was thinking of going later on to Coronado. My fave beach now (mainly because it's so CLOSE...and free to park!). Oh it is just so lovely there.
I hope we could meet for coffee one day before I move to Taiwan.
Think about it, ok?
(I'm glad I got to meet you at the Attic Jam though).
i mean Long WALK!!
what is wrong with me?
I have time on the brain!
GET OFF THE COMPUTER SUE!!!!
so much work to do...but here I sit!
:(
Just hang in there! the truth will come out at the end!
Thanks you guys, I am feeling low,
kinda sad right now. :(
It's like, yeah, he has money, I don't. But I have truth. I don't have to even think of what I'm going to say. I just have to remember how everything was. And I have receipts.
Bank records should support everything I've ever said. He's going to come up with lies and stories that will shock me with how false they are. He's already done this so far.
BTW, in the divorce papers, I was careful. I know that this stuff is public record, to a certain extent.
So even there I was trying to be protective of his reputation, whatever.
He probably won't even appreciate it.I know how those things can be ugly and not even relevant to the case legally. But it goes on record and ...
Anyway, I don't even have money for a lawyer. So he'll have some high dollar lawyer against just me.
I'll probably be crying. lol
I'm laughing thinking of it, how bad it's going to be, but
it's probably going to happen at the end of this month. I laugh because it's like a cliche.
He'll be wearing a really nice suit, and I can't even afford a dress to buy.
I'm feeling sorry for myself, I know. :(
I can at least go to thrift stores and look around for something to wear.
I need to get my car looked at.
Blah. Sorry for complaining. :(
Lisa,
Hang in there, sweetie. You have receipts- better than money. And you have honour, truth, and dignity. You can't buy that, even though I hear Paris Hilton is trying. :)
Divorce is just hellish.
My best friend got divorced recently.
Her ex is such a slime bucket...deadbeat LEACH.
He just totally lived off my friend's inheritance.
She found out last week he had been having an affair w/someone she thought was an "old friend" for YEARS.
It just really breaks my heart.
I am not perfect...but people can be so cruel and totally self-centered.
So...riddance!!!
Hang in there my dear.
You can email me anytime if you get the urge.
Take care,
Sue
PS Remember what we talked about a long time ago that we have in common??? I know...it sucks.
xxxxx
Better to be mad than sad, Lisa. Being mad will protect you for the time being. You are very vulnerable right now, but your truth and dignity will be your armour and your strength.
"Come to the edge", he said.
They said, "We are afraid".
"Come to the edge", he said.
They came ~
He pushed ...
And they flew.
You to will fly !
There is life after divorce. It gets easier as time passes. I know. Did the D Thing twice.
Lisa:
The way you carry yourself and your attitude at the proceedings is much more important than what you wear. Whenever anything goes awry please take a five second mental break, breathe deeply, and realize that your blog buddies are with you, girl!
I can't imagine how you must feel but I wish you all the best!
-519 Lin
Hope youare doing okay, kiddo?
When this door finally closes, tight, another door will surely open!
Have faith.....The darkness has to come before the dawn, right?
xo
thinking of you Lisa, keep your head and pride held high.
xx
Aw, you guys have made me cry (not in a bad way), I'm reading all your words here, you've been helping me more than you could know. It's been rough lately. I've been in more physical pain lately because of all of this - I know that being tense and stressed only makes physical pain worse.
Thanks you guys, I need to visit you all. I didn't mean to worry you. xoxoxoxoxo
Hi Lisa,
Been missing your presence on THE blog, so thought I'd check here.
I'm SO sorry you've been having such a rough and lonely time.
Lin had good advice; I agree.
And as Dan said, we're all around... if you're feeling you can't pull through. Just remember that.
- Lucy. (peeaaace)
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