The String Fiasco and Sleazy T...
Looking back, I do see the string fiasco as a sign, when you combine it with
other miscellaneous happenings. I wasn't supposed to go to T's.
He had actually shown up at the bar last weekend, and touched me and called me
"Baby" in front of everyone! He
had no right to do that. I dunno. He was rubbing my back and playing with my hair.
I was cringing. I told all my friends afterwards that I didn't like it, etc. I had not
done a single thing that would indicate to him that I wanted him to treat me like that.
So this is the real reason why I was thinking about those sorts of thoughts today. Because of the
incident last weekend, and the flaking off lately. He knew I didn't like it.
Anyway, I'm just going to avoid him.
other miscellaneous happenings. I wasn't supposed to go to T's.
He had actually shown up at the bar last weekend, and touched me and called me
"Baby" in front of everyone! He
had no right to do that. I dunno. He was rubbing my back and playing with my hair.
I was cringing. I told all my friends afterwards that I didn't like it, etc. I had not
done a single thing that would indicate to him that I wanted him to treat me like that.
So this is the real reason why I was thinking about those sorts of thoughts today. Because of the
incident last weekend, and the flaking off lately. He knew I didn't like it.
Anyway, I'm just going to avoid him.
posted by Nabonidus at 2:25 PM
11 Comments:
Hi Lisa,
Thanks for your support. Hearing someone else's perspective really changes things eh?
ON Topic: I'm so sorry you had to go through such a horrible ordeal!!!! I am so happy for you that you gathered your strength and got rid of this guy!!!
I have to take my girls SHOPPING...I'll stop by again
Thanks Lzygrl,
yep, I'm fresh off of yesterday's cruddy incident, and then hearing "my humps"
made me feel extra icked-out. lol
hmmm..that sucks, Lisa.
I went out on Friday night; very drunk and loud. One of my friend had a guy clinging to her the whole night too. She actually pushed him off the stool once, which was hillarious..
I felt sorry for her..although I didn't know that she didn't like it until afterwards...after she told me 'bout it.
Karel
Hey Karel,
what you just said is what I'm worried about with my friends at the club.
Surely they know me enough to know better!
You didn't know that your friend didn't like it, until after she told you. I am afraid of that.
xoxoLisa
Sounds like Mikey B.'s the ticket. Can't wait to hear you.
Peace, love and light to you.
Thanks, Kid Ric,
You'd think I'd have seen it before now, but at least I did eventually.
I can't wait to get some mp3s recorded, that will be cool!I'll upload them as soon as I get some.
xoxoLisa
Hey,
Thanks for the words on my blog. Wouldn't have got it without the clues, to be honest. Doesn't really look like him without the make-up. I think I shook hands with him at a trade show when I was younger, but I'm not entirely sure.
I've posted a quiz question, but really, I'll be impressed at ANYONE who even has a guess. :p
That's what happens when you grow up in the world of Jazz...
Jack
Hi Lisa,
The trouble is, even if I knew, I wouldn't know how to get her out of it, unless I'm 100% sure that she doesn't like the guy. Then, I would probably ask her for a walk outside or something.
(Hmmm..I don't know if my comment there helped at all with this problematic situation..)
Oh well,
Karel
Hey Karel,
In a way it did - reminded me that your friend and I do bear some responsibility, in that we should speak up and tell these creeps to leave us alone,while it's happening.
And then if they continue, that's when someone else should step in.:)
Lisa
Yes avoid all those who use lines fron John Mellencamp songs when he was still using 'Cougar' as his middle name!
Hope you get some space to diffuse or we might have to renact 'Faster Pussycat!Kill!Kill!'
Wow...I haven't thought of that movie for a long time!Why yes, that's a good idea Amanda!LOL
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